Posted in Love, Marriage Help on Apr 19th, 2010
Do you ever feel like your spouse or lover doesn’t listen to what you say? You’re probably right. Your love is picking up the quality of your voice, your posture, your expression…the emotions you are projecting—and is responding to that. What is unsaid is as important, if not more important, than the words you actually say.
Have you ever looked in a mirror and spewed out your guts just as if you were talking to that person? Look at the expression on your face. Is it scrunched up with anger? Do you have a tight-lipped smile that shows impatience or sarcasm? Listen to the tone of your voice. What emotions are you projecting? Read more...
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Posted in Love Frontiers, Marriage on Mar 11th, 2009
Jerry Lawson, the lead pastor at Daystar Church in Good Hope, Ala., has taken the Devil by the horns with his sermon series, “Great Sex: God’s Way” with titles such as “Devil Lies to Couples,” “Devil Lies to Singles” and “Devil Lies to Teens.” Has his congregation grown? You betcha, big time! He’s managed to accomplish this in a conservative county where you can’t legally buy beer while using an actor playing the Devil, advertising on local billboards and promoting the series on the Daystar Church website. The Cullman Times (the local county newspaper) quotes him as saying a big reaction is exactly what he wanted. “Absolutely, we wanted to shock people,” Lawson told the newspaper. “Talking about the issue proactively is the key.” Here’s one of the videos: Read more...
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Posted in Love on Mar 6th, 2009
This thought was inspired by a wonderful blog post written by Qupid, Write A Love Poem To Yourself and my last post about anger, written months and months ago. That post brought up a sludge of memories about my dad, who was consumed with anger all his life and took it out on our family. Near the end of his life, I was visiting him with a niece in the nursing home he was placed in. As we were leaving, we gave him hugs, kissed him goodbye and told him how much we loved him. Pops said he loved us and then angrily spat out, “But I don’t love myself!” Read more...
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Posted in Love, Marriage on Jul 6th, 2008
I just saw “Princess Bride” for the umpteenth time last night. Yeah, yeah, yeah, it’s corny, schmaltzy and I wondered is there really such a thing as “true love” or the “perfect farm boy”? Well, I guess the Universe thought my question was sincere enough to toss me an answer via the love story of Stacy and Audie, celebrating their 11th wedding anniversary today. Read more...
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Posted in Love, Love Frontiers, Marriage on Jun 30th, 2008
Erika La Tour Eiffel with hubby
The perfect mate might just be an inanimate object. But to Erika La Tour Eiffel, the love of her life is anything but inanimate. Erika is one of the few in the world diagnosed as objectum-sexual: they bond with objects, some even are public monuments, for which they say they have romantic and sexual feelings.
OK, I’m open to a lot of things, but literally…be sexually and emotionally attracted to a thing…an object? This is a new one. I can imagine that some people are somewhat attached to their sex toys, we all know how boys love their toys (think of those who adore their cars and guns and how they lovingly clean them), but sexually attracted to objects and public monuments?
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